The self-help for older persons

First of all admit to itself that the problem really exists. As at the alcoholic who wishes to stop to drink, crisis comes while he will look to the truth in eyes. And the same as at the alcoholic, this truth can cause floods of tears. Let they will spill. These are improvement tears - they wash out and heal the wounds put by a life, so long taken down.

Tears wash off bitterness of anger. If you constrain them, the anger will have on you destroying influence. Do not worry too long. Long experiences can cause depression - a condition at which interest to a life vanishes. If depression nevertheless has begun, address to the expert. But that you were interested by this book, already speaks about healthy interest to a life and sexual relations.

Probably that in the past at a choice of the way you were not absolutely free. In subconsciousness the requirement to adapt, justify another's expectations sat. The choice was not free as the desire to be pleasant to authorities of the childhood - to parents, teachers, friends - was too strong.

Never late to cease to lead another's life. Allow some things to die a natural death. Will inhibit in itself desire to achieve too many and get rid of feeling of defeat. You in general had sometime stresses?

If you are not imposed by such decision of a problem, look for the good sexologist. Researches show that mutual understanding and good relations between the doctor and the patient are of great importance for successful treatment, than all diplomas and degrees.

The problem of the sexologist - to help to correct the behaviour breaking erection. All energy concentrates on returning and supporting high degree of sexual satisfaction. In modern medicine very much a popular belief that the good sexologist can help 90-95 % of the patients, suffering a stressful impotence.

It seems to you, what treatment will oppress you too and you never dare at it? In that case try to help itself. Think of your relations with the partner. They warm? The gentle? Whether they are characterised by a true friendship? Or stratification of mutually caused troubles is so great, what both of you to the same extent suffer? Be fair in the estimations. Probably, hostility to the partner goes from struggle for domination, absence of trust, misunderstanding. Whether your impotence the purpose to punish the partner had originally, and has then turned to the chronic?

If you do not have continuous communications, think of the reason. Loneliness and stay in grief - a condition tragical. On the average men die for 5 years earlier, than women, there are many the lonely widows, wishing love and partnership among which the elderly man can choose.

Probably, men die earlier because cease to make love at early enough age. If they live in constant pressure and suppress irritation refusal of sex can approach death. If the man refuses one of the major functions if denies the courage, what from it remains?

The present force consists in aspiration to solve a problem, instead of in its negation. Give vent to the feelings. If relations with the partner do you unfortunate, change them or break off. But nevertheless think, as them to correct. After all there is no guarantee that with the new partner to you it will be better. In love try to give more, instead of to take. Older persons are in the habit to be engaged only in themselves, try to avoid it.

The same concerns and a wrong way of life. Ask itself one simple question: what sense to go an incorrect way? In such situation and at such age you from it only lose. Unfortunate men are ill is more often, quickly grow old, die earlier. Try to adjust the life, and you begin to respect more than. The impotence, this "weapon" of subconsciousness protecting the man from troubles and misfortunes will disappear. And at once erection "it will be liberated from fetters".

Give a hand behind happiness. Give it chance.

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